Cancer. Just the word brings fear into the heart of whoever hears it. Unfortunately the chances are high that at some point in each of our lives we will be affected by cancer. We may suffer from it ourselves or we may have a friend or a loved one diagnosed with it. No matter what the situation it’s terrifying to have cancer be a part of your life.
Whether you’ve been affected personally by cancer or not you probably wish you could help those who have been. If you had a chance to offer support and encouragement to a cancer patient to make an immediate and positive difference in their lives would you jump at it?
Meet Laura Armstrong a woman whose father died of pancreatic cancer in 1989. The years passed and Ms. Armstrong joined an online support group for women who had given birth in August of 1999. One of the women in her group was going through chemotherapy treatment for breast cancer. This struck close to home for Ms. Armstrong and she decided she wanted to do something nice for her friend to encourage her throughout her treatment. After her treatment was over she let Ms. Armstrong know how much the support had meant to her and she told Ms. Armstrong that she had thought of her as her "chemo angel". Ms. Armstrong suddenly had an idea - in August of 2000 Chemo Angels was born!
Chemo Angels is a web site (www.chemoangels.com) that gives visitors to it an opportunity to become an angel to a patient undergoing treatment for cancer. The service is provided through postal mail (and sometimes e-mail) so they will accept both volunteers and patients from all over the world. The web site consists of an application page for both volunteers and patients. Patients range in age from babies to elderly folks and despite the name "Chemo Angels" patients can be going through any stage of cancer treatment.
There are three ways to volunteer as an Angel. A Chemo Angel supports their patient by sending cards and small gifts a couple of times per week. Gifts don’t have to be extravagant and/or expensive but can be such items as bookmarks candles stickers magnets books snack foods - it can be kept simple or can be as creative as you like. Another way to volunteer is to be a Card Angel. Card Angels stick to sending cards to their patient and often include items that can fit into a card such as bookmarks stickers inspirational poems or stories and the like. The third way to participate in the Chemo Angel program is by becoming a Special Assignment Angel. "Special Assignments" are sent via e-mail to all who sign up. Any Angel can submit their patient to the Special Assignment group. These special assignments consist of patients going through a particularly tough time a death of a patient or patient’s loved one. They also consist of birthday lists of all patients being e-mailed to the Special Assignment Angels who can then choose which assignments to respond to. When you volunteer to be a Chemo Angel you can choose whether you’d like to be a Chemo Angel a Card Angel or a Special Assignment Angel - or you can choose all three!
Before you can become an Angel you must read the rules and guidelines provided on the web site. Taken directly from the web site "Being a Chemo Angel is a long-term commitment that should not be entered into lightly." Some of the reasons listed on the web site for not becoming an Angel are having your own health problems or caring for someone with major health problems expecting a major life change (new baby move etc.) the financial burden might be too great or having a personal situation that may interfere with your angeling commitment.
Once accepted as an Angel you will receive a copy of your patients questionnaire listing their personal information such as name address birthday religion and their "likes." This will help give you some ideas of things to send and talk about in your letters/cards.
Although the web site lists the specifics the following information is a general guideline when becoming a Chemo Angel (taken from the Frequently Asked Questions page at www.chemoangels.com):
*While it doesn’t cost a lot to be a Chemo Angel it does require spending some money. Most folks find they can angel a patient for about $25-$30 per month including postage.
*Chemo Angels communicate with their patients through the postal service - each patients’ questionnaire will state whether or not they wish to have e-mail contact with their Angel.
*Some folks pair up or form groups to co-angel a patient together. This is a great way to help while sharing the expense.
*Because it is such a serious commitment Angels are encouraged to stick with one patient at a time. This way they can really focus on "spoiling" their patient. However if you have the time and financial resources to be a great Chemo Angel to more than one patient at a time you certainly may. ...
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